About Us
Wethemen.in, an on-line platform/initiative working for men's rights, offers a wide range of services aimed at promoting equal rights, addressing mental health challenges, providing support in matrimonial issues, and addressing health concerns. With a commitment to gender equality, this initiative strives to ensure that men have access to the same rights and opportunities as women, fostering a society where gender biases are eliminated. Through awareness campaigns, advocacy, and legal support, Wethemen.in raises awareness about men's rights, challenges societal stereotypes, and promotes fair treatment in all spheres of life. In recognizing the importance of mental health, Wethemen.in has plans to provide counseling services, support groups, and workshops specifically tailored to address the unique mental health needs of men working in different spheres of life. By breaking the stigma surrounding men's mental health, the organization aims to create a safe space for men to seek help, access resources, and receive the support they need to navigate emotional and psychological challenges. Additionally, Wethemen.in offers guidance and assistance in matrimonial issues, including legal advice, mediation services, and support in cases of divorce, custody battles, and domestic violence. By empowering men with knowledge and resources, this initiative strives to ensure fairness and justice in family-related matters.
What we do
"Empowering Men: Navigating Matrimonial Challenges Together"
As a social Initiative, we recognize the complexities and challenges that men may face in the realm of matrimonial issues. We are committed to providing a range of services to support men in navigating these sensitive matters. Our initiative offers legal guidance and support, helping men understand their rights and responsibilities within the context of marriage and divorce. Additionally, we have plans to offer counseling services, both individually and in group settings, to help men cope with the emotional and psychological aspects of matrimonial issues. We provide a platform for men to share their experiences, find support, and learn effective communication and conflict resolution skills. Our initiative also advocates for gender equality and encourages dialogue around healthy relationships and gender roles. By providing these services, we aim to empower men to navigate matrimonial challenges with knowledge, resilience, and a sense of support, promoting fairness and well-being within the institution of marriage.
How to secure yourself from Matrimonial Issues
• Clear Communication: Maintain open and honest communication with your partner to address any concerns or issues before they escalate.
• Seek Legal Advice (WTM): Consult with a family law attorney to understand your rights and obligations, and to prepare for any potential legal disputes.
• Financial Planning: Keep detailed records of financial transactions and assets acquired before and during the marriage to protect your interests in case of a divorce.
• Mediation or Counseling (WTM): If facing marital issues, consider seeking mediation or counseling to resolve conflicts amicably and avoid litigation.
• Documentation: Keep records of important documents such as marriage certificates, financial statements, and communication with your spouse, as these may be needed in court proceedings.
• Stay Informed: Stay informed about relevant laws and regulations regarding marriage and divorce in your jurisdiction to make informed decisions.
• Opt for Mediation (WTM): Mediation changes disputes from win-lose to win-win. The main advantage of mediation process for divorce is that it cuts out the cost and the long litigation process. It is a neutral process, which benefits both the parties. It is also very flexible and does not require much formality.
"Shattered Bonds: The Agony of a Father's Parental Alienation"
Parental alienation is a deeply distressing phenomenon that affects fathers in India, leaving them to endure immense suffering and emotional anguish. In this unfortunate scenario, fathers often find themselves estranged from their children, stripped of their parental rights, and deprived of the meaningful relationships they once shared. The deliberate manipulation and indoctrination of children by the other parent, usually the mother, creates an environment of hostility and alienation, leading to severe psychological and emotional damage. Fathers are left grappling with feelings of helplessness, grief, and a profound sense of loss as they witness their bond with their children erode and fade away. Their longing to be present in their children's lives is met with barriers, legal complexities, and societal biases, further exacerbating their suffering. The effects of parental alienation on fathers in India are far-reaching, casting a shadow of despair over their lives and perpetuating a heartbreaking disconnection between them and their beloved children.
How to secure yourself from Psychological Impacts due to Parental Alienation
• Maintain open communication: Try to maintain open and honest communication with your children, emphasizing love and support rather than negativity towards the other parent in front of them and prioritize their emotional well-being..
• Seek Support (WTM): Connect with friends, family members, or support groups who understand what you're going through. Talking to others who have experienced similar situations can be comforting and provide valuable advice. Surround yourself with supportive friends, family members, or support groups who can offer emotional support and guidance during difficult times
• Document interactions & Everything: Keep records of interactions with your ex-partner, especially those related to custody arrangements, the interactions, conversations, incidents and communication about the children. This documentation can be useful if legal action becomes necessary.
• Follow court orders: Adhere to any court-ordered custody arrangements and visitation schedules. Consistently showing up and being present for your children can help combat attempts at alienation.
• Seek legal advice (WTM): If you suspect parental alienation is occurring, seek advice from a family law attorney. They can provide guidance on your rights and options for addressing the situation legally.
• Seek Professional Help (WTM): Consider seeking therapy or counseling to help you process your feelings and develop coping strategies. A mental health professional can provide you with personalized support and guidance.
• Focus on Self-Care: Take care of your physical and emotional well-being. Engage in activities that help you relax and reduce stress, such as exercise, meditation, or hobbies you enjoy.
• Consider therapy (WTM): Family therapy or counseling can be beneficial for both you and your children to navigate the challenges of parental alienation and strengthen your relationship.
• Educate yourself: Learn about parental alienation and its effects on children. Understanding the dynamics at play can help you better recognize and address any signs of alienation.
• Stay Positive: Focus on the relationship you have with your child and continue to show them love and support, even if the other parent is trying to undermine it. Stay positive and hopeful that things will improve over time.
• Maintain Boundaries: Set clear boundaries with the other parent to protect yourself from further emotional harm. This may include limiting communication or seeking legal advice if necessary.
• Stay patient and persistent: Resolving issues of parental alienation can take time and persistence. Stay committed to maintaining a positive relationship with your children and seeking resolution through appropriate channels.
"Breaking the Silence: Supporting Men's Mental Health and Well-being"
As a social Initiative, we are dedicated to addressing the critical issue of Men's mental health. Recognizing the unique challenges and societal pressures that men often face, we provide a range of services tailored specifically to their needs. Additionally, we have plans to collaborate with healthcare professionals to ensure access to affordable and quality mental health services, including referrals to therapists, psychiatrists, and support networks. By providing these services, we aim to break down stigmas surrounding men's mental health and foster a society that values emotional well-being for all individuals, empowering men to lead healthier, happier lives.
How to secure yourself from Psychological and Mental Issues
• Healthy Lifestyle: Regular exercise, balanced nutrition, adequate sleep, and avoiding substance abuse can contribute to mental well-being.
• Stress Management (WTM): Learning and practicing stress-reduction techniques such as mindfulness, deep breathing, or meditation can help manage stress effectively.
• Social Support (WTM): Maintaining strong relationships with friends, family, or support groups provides a sense of belonging and helps in coping with stress.
• Set Boundaries: Establishing healthy boundaries in personal and professional relationships can prevent overwhelm and burnout.
• Seeking Help (WTM): If experiencing persistent mental health issues, seeking support from a mental health professional such as a therapist or counselor is essential.
• Engage in Hobbies: Participating in activities that bring joy and fulfillment can act as a buffer against stress and promote mental well-being.
• Mindful Technology Use: Limiting exposure to negative news and social media, and being mindful of screen time can reduce stress and anxiety.
• Self-compassion: Practicing self-compassion and being kind to oneself during challenging times is crucial for mental resilience.
How to secure yourself from Workplace Harassment
• Document incidents: Keep a detailed record of any inappropriate behavior, including dates, times, and witnesses.
• Communicate clearly: Firmly but politely inform the harasser that their behavior is unwelcome and request that it stop.
• Report to HR: Follow your company's protocol for reporting harassment. Provide your documentation and any evidence you have.
• Seek support (WTM): Talk to a trusted colleague, friend, or counselor for emotional support and guidance.
• Know your rights: Familiarize yourself with your company's harassment policies and applicable laws to understand your rights and options.
• Consider legal action (WTM): If the harassment continues or escalates despite reporting it, you may need to consult with a lawyer about your legal options.